I finally did it!!!
Sep. 17th, 2006 10:03 pmI finally caved in and let Ron take me for a ride on his motorcycle today.
I have been "fighting" this since he asked me in our first conversation in February (when we all got back together).
I still can't believe I finally got up the nerve to go.
We were all just hanging around chatting and we had casually talked about a ride and I said I just wanted to sit on the bike at first.
Finally, Ron said "So, are you ready to go for a ride" and I said yes. And he said he didn't expect that answer. I still insisted I just wanted to sit on it.
So, before I had time to think about it he got his sandals on and got the bike out of the garage.
Not thinking we were going anywhere, I got on behind him - both of us in shorts, sandals and no helmets. (doing everything completely opposite of how many of you advised).
Ron's friend Roy was there - and was egging us on. He followed behind us on his bike (which made me a bit nervous) - but he convinced Ron to just ride. So, I held on.
Man, I was scared though. I know I made some high pitched girlie noises as we rode around. We went around their block twice.
It was neat with the wind blowing on us (through my hair). Once we got back & I calmed down a bit, I was asking if he would take me another time. Of course, he said yes.
Nor was a bit peeved when I got back - as she had been napping and I didn't wake her to see my very first ride. Apparently, she came outside just as we were pulling out of the driveway.
Then I convinced Gerry to go for a ride, too - so, Ron took Gerry while Noreen & Roy joined in on their own bikes - and they all went for a longer ride than the one I had.
This was a very monumental experience for me - as I am a total chicken for this kind of thing. Like, completely. I later decided part of my issues are that I have to give up total control (I like to the the one to drive) AND I have to trust Ron to safely ride and keep the bike upright. Very hard for me to do.
But I am definitely interested in riding again. Next time with jeans, shoes and a helmet.
Nor wants me to get my own bike so she and I can ride together. Definitely thinking about it.
Hmmm, maybe I can convince Ron to take me to faire on the bike this Saturday. Might have to mention that to him!
Thanks to everyone who did respond to my request for pointers. Ron did say I was a good passenger - and back rest. ;-)
I have been "fighting" this since he asked me in our first conversation in February (when we all got back together).
I still can't believe I finally got up the nerve to go.
We were all just hanging around chatting and we had casually talked about a ride and I said I just wanted to sit on the bike at first.
Finally, Ron said "So, are you ready to go for a ride" and I said yes. And he said he didn't expect that answer. I still insisted I just wanted to sit on it.
So, before I had time to think about it he got his sandals on and got the bike out of the garage.
Not thinking we were going anywhere, I got on behind him - both of us in shorts, sandals and no helmets. (doing everything completely opposite of how many of you advised).
Ron's friend Roy was there - and was egging us on. He followed behind us on his bike (which made me a bit nervous) - but he convinced Ron to just ride. So, I held on.
Man, I was scared though. I know I made some high pitched girlie noises as we rode around. We went around their block twice.
It was neat with the wind blowing on us (through my hair). Once we got back & I calmed down a bit, I was asking if he would take me another time. Of course, he said yes.
Nor was a bit peeved when I got back - as she had been napping and I didn't wake her to see my very first ride. Apparently, she came outside just as we were pulling out of the driveway.
Then I convinced Gerry to go for a ride, too - so, Ron took Gerry while Noreen & Roy joined in on their own bikes - and they all went for a longer ride than the one I had.
This was a very monumental experience for me - as I am a total chicken for this kind of thing. Like, completely. I later decided part of my issues are that I have to give up total control (I like to the the one to drive) AND I have to trust Ron to safely ride and keep the bike upright. Very hard for me to do.
But I am definitely interested in riding again. Next time with jeans, shoes and a helmet.
Nor wants me to get my own bike so she and I can ride together. Definitely thinking about it.
Hmmm, maybe I can convince Ron to take me to faire on the bike this Saturday. Might have to mention that to him!
Thanks to everyone who did respond to my request for pointers. Ron did say I was a good passenger - and back rest. ;-)